How Souls Choose Their Parents and Families

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Years before my baby girl was born, I had a dream that I had a daughter. She came to me and gave me a hug, told me I was her mother, and told me her name was Evelyn. That dream imprinted on my memory and my heart. So much so that when I found out I was pregnant, I knew I was carrying a girl, and she had already told me her name: Evelyn. Meaning wished for child, which couldn’t be more true!

In order to evolve, our souls come to Earth more than once.  I know that as I’ve grown and changed and learned about soul contracts and reincarnation, my thoughts and beliefs have gravitated to this notion.  For those of you who are on the fence about reincarnation, I invite to you to explore the idea that a soul is born into a (different) body for many lifetimes.

It is my belief that once a soul has made the decision to have (another) earthly incarnation, the first step is to decide on what kind of life they want. This is contingent upon what lessons they wish to learn. This involves being matched with a parent or set of parents. This process really depends on the soul’s purpose and desire for specific lessons and lifestyle.

For example,  if two souls had been together before perhaps as a mother and daughter set, then they might wish to relive that experience again or perhaps relive it in reverse, so the daughter becomes the mother in the new lifetime. Sometimes the soul wishes to incarnate in a particular part of the world, and the choice will be less specific to the individual parent.  As diverse as people are, so are our souls and what we wish to create and experience in our lifetime(s).

Once this connection to a potential parent is made, the soul then creates a connection to that person and is present around their energy, waiting to be born at the right time. When I do intuitive readings for clients, I often see the souls of their unborn children waiting for them. I can usually tell if the child is a boy or a girl, and may also get a sense of what they are meant to experience together in this lifetime.

The book Spirit Babies: How to Communicate with the Child You’re Meant to Have is a collection of stories from an intuitive gentleman who spent decades connecting parents with their unborn children. When I do a reading, I cannot guarantee I’ll pick up information about potential unborn children, but more often than not, I do ‘see’ them if they are with you and going to be joining your family in the future.

Of course, parents also have significant influence as to which soul joins their family through conception. Our daily thoughts, desires and purposes create a beacon for souls who respond to these energies. This is particularly true of the mother. According to the Edgar Cayce readings, a woman’s daily activities and inner thoughts during the gestation period create a field much like a magnet would, attracting souls to the field of opportunity life as her child would offer.

As far as families with more than one child, souls also make soul contract/agreements with potential siblings. The energy field and desire of the mother and the souls wanting to incarnate combine to make the decision as to who is born first. 

I like to imagine my sisters and I floating in the Ether on the “Other Side” deciding to go first, and I in my oldest child splendor and glory pushed through and said, “Me first, of course!” In the case of miscarriage, I’ve noticed that particular soul often comes in through a later pregnancy if the opportunity is presented. I’ve also seen one instance where the miscarried child from a woman went on to be born into her best friend’s family.

I’ve done readings for folks who have shared a myriad of past lives with the same group of souls – soul groups – all taking turns being siblings, parents and children. One thing I’m certain after doing hundreds of readings is…we certainly do choose our family members, the location we will incarnate, and the different life events that will take place. It is empowering and so very touching for me to know my family members and I chose each other. I feel especially honored that my daughter chose me. What a gift she has given me in this lifetime.

Do you believe souls choose our parents? Do you have any stories of children (or you) remembering past lives and connections in them?


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18 comments:

  1. I was adopted. My adopted tried to shape me into something I wasn't or could not be. I thin k the damage of the adoption in the late 40's still affects me. I was also rejected and practically destroyed by the adoptive mother in the end. Why should i choose such a mess? rejected by 2 mothers. I had to find a spiritual guidance system to tolerate life at all. I am also a Reiki Practitioner healing myself and others

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    1. I have endured major difficulties and trama in this lifetime. I choose to learn from them no matter how difficult it has been. I have endured and survived so I can help others going thru the same things. Reiki is a great way to help others but so can your experiences.

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    2. diana balgaard it is not so simple. When we chose certain experiences, we are attracted to chose them because of the belief we previously held. For example, let say that you had a painful marriage in your last incarnation and you developed a belief that love is not possible in marriage. Just before you leave your body, you will made a decision/conclusion which is going to be an opening sentence for your next life. For example "I will prove that love can exist." or "I will never ever get married again." Both are your desires and are based on a belief system. And then your soul acts upon these decisions. In the next life, you will chose circumstances which will help you to prove that love really exists or you will chose to stay alone all your life, even to go to a monastery. However, from those different experiences, you will evolve and learn and hopefully achieve what you wanted and then you will make new decisions at the end of your life. The repeating cycles of reincarnation are damn complicated, that is why it is so hard to leave this plane. You can figure out what is your soul purpose by what is your lifetime desire. My life desire/goal is to find a true family or a place where I can feel that I belong.

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  2. Diana Balgarrd - perhaps your spirit chose your adoptive parents simply for the challenge of its purpose, knowing you would be strong enough to rise above and overcome it. Seeing how you are a Reiki Practitioner, seems you are doing well at balancing and managing your energies

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  3. we are tricked into this life by the reptilians,,they planned out our lives ,, icke should know that

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  4. My son said that before he was born he saw me and picked me. He told me that when he was 3

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  5. my ex boyfriend commit suicide... since 1 years.. he loved me so much... and my daughter too... my daughter is pregnant... it is possible when a soul commit sucide.. can reincarnate ? it is possible he choose my daughter to be his mother ?? i feel he will..choose to return to us.... my daughter too think the same...
    she will give birth in few days....

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  6. The thought of reincarnating to come here again I find very disturbing, I really hope I can choose not to come back, it's too hard and harsh here, it's not for me, I hope this is my last incarnation.....

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  7. i hope its my last too.. my life has been hard and its nor finish.... too more rough karma

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  8. I dreamt about both my two kids,love the article .

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  9. I'm so sorry to read about the troubled lives you ladies have had, something brought you to read this article and hopefully you can get something positive from it. Sending love and light towards you

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  10. AS soon as we each KNOW we chose it ALL, we can begin to choose differently. We are Infinite Beings and it is only the old programs and choices that have us in 'Hot messes', if you owned your KNOWING.... Truth, are you and Infinite Being? What could you choose then? What energy, space and consciousness can you BE to expand your awareness to allow the KNOWiNG that you are an Infinite Being with infinite choice and possibilities? Whatever that brings up in you or gets in the way of you having that... would you be willing to hit the delete, destroy and uncreate button on those programs, stories or implants across all times, spaces, dimensions, lifetimes and realities? YES..... Welcome to Conscious Living.... where the freedom to choose different is yours. Blessings of Infinite Sparkle & Possibilities- Gigi

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  11. Thank you Gigi! Your comment hit home. Love and light.

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